‘24: The Year I Gave God the Driver’s Seat
A Year in Review
I just realized I barely shared any of my experiences last year compared to the year before. Looking back, I think it’s because I felt like nothing particularly exciting was happening. That’s precisely how the year began — a bit stagnant, a result of decisions that, at the time, seemed to have made my life less exciting.
While I meticulously documented my wins and losses in my diary, a consistent theme emerged: God’s unwavering goodness. Let’s delve into this journey together, shall we?
On taking bold steps
The year truly began when I submitted my resignation letter. I vividly remember that day, a year ago today. Every single day since then has affirmed that it was the best decision I’ve ever made.
However, the months that followed, without of a steady income, were undeniably challenging. Colleagues, family, and friends questioned my sanity, considering it reckless to leave a stable job in Nigeria’s volatile economy.
Self-doubt crept in occasionally, but every time I questioned my decision, God presented undeniable proof that He was solidly behind me. Resigning from the bank afforded me the precious time to prioritize my relationship with God. My demanding job had strained our intimacy. Constant meetings, late nights, and unexpected duties made it impossible to dedicate quality time to Him.
This led me to Bible school, a sanctuary where I could reignite my lost fire and deepen my intimacy with God.
On growth
The challenging days weren’t all gloom and doom. They unveiled a level of independence and fortitude I never knew I possessed.
Accustomed to a steady paycheck and sporadic side-hustle income, I became a full-fledged entrepreneur. I had to embrace my inner “big girl” and take my businesses seriously. Though I had no concrete plan, I trusted God’s promise of all-sufficiency.
Miraculously, in a year without a salary, my business income 2x my previous annual salary. My printing business, launched the year before, experienced a surge in demand, attracting clients from banks, organizations, and even international markets (the US, Canada, UK, Germany!). I was processing bulk customized prints almost every month — a far cry from the “me” of a year ago. What an amazing God!
As if that wasn’t enough, my financial consulting business gained significant traction locally and internationally. I found myself speaking at high-stakes events, advising high-net-worth individuals. My schedule was packed, a surreal experience. My name was being mentioned in circles I never imagined I’d be a part of. I even became a Forbes member and was interviewed on national news.
The reasons for leaving my job became crystal clear. There was absolutely no way I could have juggled all these opportunities while still employed. No way!
On rejections
One of my biggest goals last year was to go for my master's program in the UK fully funded and get a partial scholarship to write a professional exam. Both plans I began to pursue from the start of the year. Both fell through. I was devastated.
In between I got selected to attend a social impact conference in New York. However, I couldn’t afford to attend it because it was expensive. As though my whole world should collapse. But I encouraged myself, even rejection was a redirection and delay is never denial.
On friendships
This year, I leaned heavily on my friends. As someone who typically prefers to handle things independently, this was a new and humbling experience. There were days when exhaustion threatened to overwhelm me, and I knew pushing further would be detrimental.
And oh boy, did my friends come through! I was initially hesitant to delegate tasks due to my perfectionist tendencies, but they exceeded all expectations. Some even contributed resources to support my missionary and professional works— a gesture I never anticipated.
As someone who consistently offers her time, resources, and gifts, it felt incredibly rewarding to experience this level of reciprocation. It felt truly good. And this year brought new friendships, filled with genuine warmth and kindness.
On romantic relationships
There are days when I wish I were a man. The constant pressure, questions, and well-intentioned advances regarding marriage can be overwhelming. I attempted to navigate the dating scene this year, but I guess God still wants me to watch while I pray.
Perhaps I’m still wary of making the wrong choice, as I narrowly avoided a potential misstep this year. Every time I reflect on it, I’m grateful for the clarity that prevented me from being blinded by emotions and fleeting words.
Don’t get me wrong, I love love and the butterfly feeling in the belly. It’s good. But it’s not a solid foundation to build a relationship upon. 2024 was a year of profound learning about marriage and preparing myself for the right partner.
I’ve created a personal playlist to remind myself why I won’t settle for less in marriage. I don’t just want commentaries about my beauty and brain — I’m completely aware of that. I want a partner with a working purpose, someone who is intentional, deeply invested in my overall growth, supports my audacious dreams, offers unwavering spiritual support, and loves me unconditionally, without expectation.
I’m probably sharing too much, but I believe those who know me understand. Maybe 2025 will bring the right person into my life. Who knows?
On Faith
There were days when prayer felt like a chore. Days of unwavering devotion intertwined with days of feeling utterly alone. Days when I questioned God’s approval, followed by days of profound prophetic insights and revelations.
But through it all, the Holy Spirit remained my constant companion, guiding me back to my Father with awe, repentance, and true submission. I dared to exercise great faith this year, and the results were astonishing.
This year, I experienced the profound impact of God’s faithfulness, mercy, favor, providence, and goodness firsthand. I had read about these attributes, but 2024 brought them to life in my own reality.
God demonstrated the futility of pursuing success outside of Him and revealed my inherent brokenness and the all-encompassing nature of His grace. I made a conscious effort to remain close to Him, nourishing my spirit with His word, insightful sermons, and uplifting music. I resolutely resisted any attempts by the devil to infiltrate my thoughts. I’ve wandered away from God before, and those experiences taught me the invaluable importance of abiding in Him.
Words cannot adequately express the glorious way God guided me through 2024. If you’re seeking the ultimate driver, I wholeheartedly recommend Jesus Christ — He knows the way.
Looking Ahead to 2025
In 2025, I yearn for a deep, abiding joy — a joy unburdened by worldly expectations, pressures, and responsibilities.
I want to attempt great things. I don’t mind failing or getting rejected. At least failing means I know what not to do the next time.
I want be loud about what I do. In 2024 I saw how powerful speaking about my work did to my business. I want to amplify that this year.
I want travel more. I had a glimpse of how therapeutic that was to my inner childhood who was either restricted or too afraid to step out.
I want to be a fiercely supportive friend, especially as my closest friends embark on their own peak seasons.
I want to spend quality time alone, perhaps even living independently, exploring new recipes, establishing personal traditions, and making decisions that reflect my individuality.
I want to fall in love. I have never been. This closest I have ever been felt good. I want a feeling that is better than that.
I want to experience true love. I’ve never truly known it before, and the closest I’ve experienced felt good. I want a love that surpasses anything I’ve ever known.
I want to achieve significant success in my businesses and contribute meaningfully to my nation’s economy, even if it means joining the ranks of the top 0.0075%.
I know 2025 holds unimaginable possibilities. The year has already begun. See you at the next stop on this incredible journey.
Byeeeee
Since you enjoyed reading this, you will love this:
Listen carefully [Praise Adeola], for I am about to do something new. It is happening right now! Don’t you see it? I will make a road through the desert and rivers in the dry land. — Isah 43:19 (GNT)
At the end of every month, I randomly answer questions on Christian living, career, finance, mental health, personal growth, and relationships. Have a question in any these areas? Please fill out the form.
If you found this post valuable, show your support by:
- Clap as much as you can to boost my visibility globally (50x)
- Donate less than $1 towards my new book
- Leave a comment and share it with friends on social media
- Connect with me on my social platforms
- Subscribe (to get my stories first)
